switches:
The Bisexuals of BDSM? People love tidy little boxes. They crave labels that fit on a shelf, neat categories they can point at like specimens…
Month: September 2025
ssc, rack, and prick:
Acronyms for the Perverts Who Plan Hang around long enough in the kink world and you’ll hear the alphabet soup get tossed around: SSC, RACK,…
safe words
Why We Don’t Just Say ‘Ouch’ Movies always fuck this part up. You’ve seen it—the tied wrists, the flogger in mid-swing, the moaning that turns…
meet the cast:
Dom, Sub, Switch, and Friends Step into the scene and you don’t find cardboard cutouts in leather costumes—you find people. Messy, complicated, hungry people. They…
the alphabet of desire
Introduction: Breaking Open the Box BDSM isn’t tidy. People want it to be—they want neat boxes, quick labels, definitions they can stick to their lovers…