tape
Bondage Tape: Duct Tape’s Cooler, Sexier Cousin Duct tape is great if you’re patching a leaky pipe, holding the bumper on your car, or pretending…
bondage
Ropes, Tape, and What You Shouldn’t Use From the Garage There’s a reason we keep coming back to rope. Not because it looks pretty, though…
blindfolds
See No Evil, Feel Everything Else Blindfolds are liars in the best way. They look small, simple—just a strip of silk or leather tossed in…
instruments of trust
Tools of the Trade, Flesh of the Story Walk into any dungeon, peek into any toy bag, or pull open the wrong drawer in the…
bleed
The Rules We Bleed For Consent isn’t a contract written once and tucked in a drawer—it’s the blood that circulates through everything we do. It…
balance
Your Fantasy, My Boundary: The Balancing Act Fantasies don’t ask for permission. They barge in at 3 a.m., dripping with fire, chains, rope burns, and…
no clowns
Yes to Spanking, No to Clowns: Creating a Yes/No/Maybe List Planning a scene isn’t a blindfold-and-go adventure. It’s not jumping in the car and hoping…
gone wrong
When Negotiation Goes Wrong Negotiation is supposed to be the careful choreography—the whispered promises, the map that gets you from spark to skin without anyone…
polite no
Declining a Request Without Killing the Mood Picture this: a play party humming like a live wire, music pounding, eyes darting, bodies tuned to a…
morning after
Post-Scene Debriefs and Evaluations The ropes are off. The floggers are back in the bag. The blindfold’s hanging there like it’s tired of pretending to…